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Playtime in Austin No pics of the first 2 weeks of August. No snaps of garage cleaning or neglected dental, hair and doc appointments.
After 2 weeks, it was time to reward ourselves and take some photos. We headed to Austin. Sometimes Pop Pop and Grammaloon (yes, she calls me that) need to play.
Some of us were very fashionable while we played. Don and I baby-sat on Saturday night, so Mommy and Daddy could go out.  We played hard with balls and water and costume props and candy! We squeezed in an outing or 2. Then on Sunday evening, Heidi cooked an amazing feast. (click to enlarge) Charlie always offers up lots of singing performances, in the car, or with her toy microphone, or piano...  But on this particular visit, this barely 3 1/2 year old surprised me with her art! She was busy those crayons. I love it! Idaho Later in the month, Don and I flew to Idaho for a total change in scenery.  We stayed with my bro and SIL at their home in Boise.
Chris and Karen always show us the best parts of their city. At the House
But my favorite Boise times were spent hanging out at the house. On the Road After 2 nights in Boise, we hit the road to enjoy 2 memorable lodges!
Sun Valley Inn was heavenly, with mountain views!
Redfish Lodge was rustic and comfy, with a gorgeous lake view. Favorite Views These are some of my favorite images from both places. We lucked out with nearby fires. The smoke didn't invade until the day we left. Fun Stuff We 4 are getting older, but it felt like we were kids again. We squeezed in lots of fun and goofy activities.  The pontoon boat on Redfish Lake was one of the most memorable. Below are more happy moments in Idaho. In some pics, I'm wearing my brother's Austrian hat. He decided I MUST wear it on the trip... and keep it. I packed my mom's old Sonja Henie doll for the trip. We had some fun photo moments with her in Sun Valley. (S. Henie starred in Sun Valley Serenade in 1941) I nudged Karen and Chris to "adopt" Sonja into their home. A hat and doll swap, basically! Food & Drink There are always food adventures when we spend time with Chris and Karen.
The photos below show some of our highlights in Idaho... ...plus a few road stop finds, on the way to California. Off to Scott & Cha's From Boise we drove our rental car to Sacramento.  We spent one night in Winnemucca, NV. Didn't stay at Scott Shady Court this time, but I was excited to spot it. I vow to spend a night, in the future! California Kids We arrived at Scott and Chali's on August 30.  There's always something to celebrate with these kids! Saturday in Midtown On the last day of the month, we enjoyed both lunch and dinner in the lively midtown area of Sac.
Saigon Alley offered amazing Vietnamese dishes in a bright, modern setting. In the evening we ate BBQ at a brewery, then walked a few blocks to a Speakeasy called Roost.
To reach Roost, we entered a lively restaurant called Bawk's. Ali's face greeted us and I insisted on a quick photo. My photo skills failed. Chali spoke with the gentleman at the desk and suddenly we found ourselves in a supply closet. Chali knocked on one door and a wall opened up.
We were invited to create our own cocktail recipes, using the ingredients on a round coaster. But the elaborate drink menu gave plenty of options, including tasty mocktails.
The cozy-classy atmosphere was pleasant for chatting about plans. The next day, we 4 would head off on a mini road trip.
What a perfect way to end the month.. with family... knowing that we'd start September, with more family adventures!
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Calm Before the Storm July was an up and down month. It began with troubling news from different friends. Loss, health issues... trauma. This was all before Hurricane Beryl arrived.  The last half of the month was spent driving up and down, through the mountains of Colorado. As always, this post will focus on the uplifting moments. July 4th A surprise visit on July 4th, was just what the doctor ordered.
Our son's friend was in town and brought his sweet daughter over for a visit. By evening it was just us 2. We enjoyed the patio with colorful champagne and peanuts. 3 glasses needed so we could have the proper colors!
Don grilled burgers while firework displays entertained in 2 directions! Hurricane Beryl Days later Beryl arrived on July 8. We lost power before 6 am and the house felt eerily quiet, with no a.c. or fan noise.  But outside the sounds were fierce! We've never experience such dramatic wind, in 25+ years in Texas. Daylight allowed us to gather important things. Phone battery charger was helpful, but hardly any cell service.  Luckily no real damage, Just 13 bags of sticks and a few more bundles of limbs. Best Stuff Don found the coffee percolator in the camp equipment!
I was thrilled to get NPR on our tiny jar-radio! We got local storm updates. Entertainment The first day I sorted through old photo boxes, before the house became stifling.
We were lucky to have the pool. We spent much of our time outside. I watched a bird building a nest and studied odd bugs. Escape to Austin By the 4th day of no power, we had both fridges and freezers emptied into the trash and we took off for Austin.  The power came back on by the time we got there, but we didn't turn around.  We stayed and played for 2 days. This little Polish Girl entertained us with a little polka dancing! She was as refreshing as the air-conditioning!  We said good-bye feeling rejuvenated. Back home we packed up and headed west.  We had one night at the Hill Country cabin and soaked up more Texas heat, once again. On the Road to Colorado We were off! 18 days with cooler weather and mountains!
Such beautiful scenery in Colorado and New Mexico, but that's not what lured us! Together after 45 Years! Meeting up with my old college buddies, was what actually prompted the road trip.  We 3 met up along with our hubbies, in Denver. We spent a night and morning, laughing and catching up, eating and drinking at Hotel Teatro in Denver.  It was the first time Marla and Martha and I had been together since 1979! Gotta thank these 2 and all the husbands for making this happen! Mini Meet-Up! We were also able to meet up with our sweet nephew and his girlfriend, while staying in Denver!  Two fun reunions in the Mile High City! Home Away From Homes During our trip, we stayed in 11 different towns/cities. As usual, we looked for curious accommodations.  The Orman Mansion in Pueblo was a memorable overnight!
Hotel Teatro in Denver and The Maxwell Anderson (once Hotel Denver) in Glenwood Springs, were both lovely.
The Black Monarch (Victor, CO) and Teller House (Silverton, CO) were similar, host-free hotels in old mining towns. The first was very creepy.
Hotel St. Francis in Santa Fe felt like a church. Castaneda in Las Vegas, NM felt like an old Harvey House near the train tracks... because it once was!  Inn at the Art Center (San Angelo, TX) was the most unique. Once a chicken farm, now a cluster of art studios, a restaurant and handful of guest rooms. Food and Drink As always, we ate well during our travels. Our only fast-food stop involved alien donuts and burgers in Roswell, NM! People in New Mexico and Colorado We met some interesting folks. And we observed some curious characters. I absolutely loved watching the locals dance in Santa Fe's historic plaza! Exploring Our driving days were mostly short. So we had time to explore. We actually squeezed in a little more relaxing time, than we often do. Ending July I didn't accomplish much of importance in July. I didn't write my memoir.
I didn't even finish reading a book. But I made a few more memories. I'm eager to catch up with a few people back home, during August.
13 Charlie Days Don and I spent almost half of June's days, with this Funny Face.  Charlie's mom and dad had 2 trips and we did lots of babysitting. Older Faces The end of the month was spent with these family faces.  It's been 5 years since my sibs and spouses gathered for a Michigan reunion. On the Road The month began with Charlietime. We picked her up in Austin and brought her to our house, for 2 different visits. 4 drives with a 3-year-old and 4 without.  The Charlie drives were much more entertaining. Lots of singing and endless gleeful announcements, when Charlie spotted water towers, flags and cows! Hanging Out Charlie kept us busy, mostly hanging out close to home. Cooking, swimming, piano and just a tiny bit of TV. Movie clips from classic musicals! The Grandparents were successful in creating a new Gene Kelly and Esther Williams fan! Michigan Don and I left the Texas heat in mid June and flew to Detroit.  We stayed in an inn, that was once Frederick Sterns' mansion. We dined at Mario's, an iconic Italian restaurant that I last enjoyed when I was 16. St. Clair and Port Huron We spent a night in a nearly 100-year-old hotel, on the St. Clair River.  The Inn's river views were entertaining! Then, we drove further north, to enjoy a peek at Lake Huron. And another epic dining experience, at an 88-year-old restaurant! Ann Arbor From Detroit, we headed to Ann Arbor and stayed a night at the Stone Cottage Inn. Next night at The Graduate. It was called "Campus Inn" when I attended my HS prom there, in 1975!
Don and I have fond memories of this wonderful college town, since we both lived in Ann Arbor, 50 years ago... a few years before we met in St. Louis. Places Don went to U of M for 2 years. I lived in Ann Arbor the same 2 years, finishing high school. Our memories are different, but we love going back and exploring. So many wonderful places we both remember. People The best part of the visit, was spending time with some special people. I've known Lorie for a half century.
It was fun to talk and laugh in person again. We did a lot of that, back in Huron High days! My brother Chris and SIL Karen, spent 2 nights with us in Ann Arbor. Chris and I share some fun Ann Arbor memories.  A lot of them revolve around restaurants! Food in Michigan We revisited Ann Arbor's Fleetwood Diner. The last visit for Don and me was in 1980, after we were married.  Chris took the current photo. We've changed, but the diner has changed little. We made a few toasts and enjoyed a few meals, in Ann Arbor... ...before traveling on to the old German town of Frankenmuth. Northport Eventually we made our way to Northport, where we united with our other siblings and spouses.  We spent time exploring small towns near Lake Michigan and absorbing the cool temps. Mostly the 8 of us hung out together, along with a few special dogs. Lots of good food and converstaion. I already miss this gang! We finished up the month of June, with a beautiful sunset.  Good bye, Michigan! Good bye, June 2024!
Surprise 1 The month started with a May Day surprise on the porch!  Actually not really a surprise. For quite a few years, we've had these "surprise" deliveries from a sweet family that lives nearby. Always a good start to the month! Surprise 2 My second surprise was a visit from my daughter and granddaughter, a week before Mother's Day.  This was going to be a total surprise, but Heidi realized I might better enjoy the weekend visit, if I knew a day or 2 before. Anticipation is part of the fun! Hanging Out We had a few fun days hanging out at the house and going to brunch and lunch! We pulled in a little Cinco de Mayo celebrating as well! I didn't take our get-together for granted. I've celebrated 38 Mother's Days and half of them have been long distance. I've learned to adapt to kids living far away, just as my mom did with me... and her mom did with her. Indulged Mom On the real Mom Day a week later, I enjoyed some more.
Surprise flowers and surprise gift certificates from the kids! Scott and Cha called from California and we gabbed forever. They explained my "Float Spa" gift. A couple weeks later, I spent an hour in a floatation pod with 1,000 pounds of epsom salts!
The air and water was equally warm and music and colors made me feel like I was in dream! A good and relaxing dream, of drifting in space! Mother's Day Picnic The rainy weather on Mother's Day was almost comical. Don and I did some of our own celebrating, with some of my favorite fast food. 
 I posed at the park with a gator, remembering Mother's Day a year ago when we had a live alligator swimming the lake behind our house! The Gulf Coast In mid May, Don and I drove just over an hour to Galveston Island.  We spent a couple nights enjoying the coastal resort city, before tourist season. We stayed at Hotel Lucine, a newly remodeled 1963 motel.  We had the hotel pretty much to ourselves. It was nice to see the beach as well as the historic city, before the crowds and heat moved in. A few photos below show our hotel and restaurants and the Bolivar Ferry. After 2 nights in Galveston, we hit the road again. East Texas We drove the straight & flat roads near the coast, then ended up on hilly, tree-lined highways further north.
What a contrast, driving in east Texas. We explored the original route of El Camino Real and walked on trails made by wagons and animals, hundreds of years ago. Fredonia in Nacogdoches We stayed at another mid-century modern hotel.  Despite some major storms, we had a couple of fun days relaxing at the hotel, in the Oldest City in Texas. Exploring We explored the historic city as well as some towns, just down the road. After a total of 4 nights away, we returned home feeling like we'd been gone a month! Relaxing in Fort Worth I squeezed in one more Texas trip, later in May.  This one was to Fort Worth to spend some time with old friends.The 4 of us hardly needed to leave Christy's home. It was an oasis. 2 Nights We needed more than 2 nights to catch up. I miss our monthly book club gatherings, back when we all lived in the same neighborhood. We often used to talk until 2 am. We made it to 1 am, the first night. We got out a bit for a meal or 2. But my favorite time was hanging out on the patio. Even the drive home with Shari was entertaining, with a "dining adventure" lunch stop, at Kissing Pigs Cafe! Friends at Home At the end of the month, Don and I were able to spend an evening with special friends back home.  This was a month for feeling grateful for family and friends. Some near and some far.  After a little running around in May, it was nice to be reminded that there are good friends right back here at home. Rain and Haze The month ended with some rainy days, followed by hazy ones. 
On the last day of May, the rain and haze cleared. I had another simple surprise, when I noticed the neighborhood kids had finished their last day of school and left a message on the sidewalk!
I love how this month started with a May Day surprise and ended with a surprise message on the sidewalk. Such fun reminders of my own simple childhood! Best April I can't remember an April that I didn't love.  All Aprils have my birthday, but I'm past that! This April was a totally different kind of special. "Eclipse Totality Texas" Early in the month we gathered with the kids at the cabin, to celebrate the total solar eclipse.
The gathering was nearly perfect... except we were missing a very important family member. Chali was in California, but she wore her shirt and stayed connected through FaceTime. 8-21-17 and 4-8-24 We've been looking forward to this celebration, since the last total eclipse 7 years ago. The first pic shows Don, Scott and Lola the pup in 2017. We watched from a cemetery in Tennessee. The second shows our Texas eclipse!
Back in 2017, Scott realized our cabin in Texas would be in the Path of Totality in 2024. We had the perfect place for eclipse viewing, high on the hill above our cabin, overlooking Lake LBJ. Pre-Eclipse Cabin Time There were predictions of Eclipse Chaos on Texas roads.  We arrived 2 days early, with lots food and drink and entertainment. No TV at the cabin, but we did have music. The same Eclipse Playlist from 2017, with moon & sun songs! The temperatures were perfect for hanging out. I tried to ignore weather predictions that called for clouds on April 8! Remembering Dad We used some of our time together, to have a sweet and simple remembrance for my dad.  This was the first time we'd been together since my dad's passing in December. Family celebrated with Dad on his 95th birthday, in September, but we never had real closure after his death. Raft, Notes & Flowers... Bubbles & Lemonade There was a stick raft involved and flowers and ashes. The ashes were actually from our written messages, which we burned. It felt just right. Charlie didn't understand our farewell exactly, but she knew the raft was for Great Grandpa. Dad would have enjoyed our light and playful celebration. April Flowers April wildflowers and butterflies were in rare form!
We did some wildflower appreciating and we did a little wildflower posing. Eclipse Day April 8 We were equipped for the day, with our certified eclipse glasses. So were a few animal statues! (Pearl the Squirrels from 2 days earlier!)
Our Totality Celebration pretty much lasted all day. Before noon, we packed up our goofy glasses and a cooler with special treats. Path of Totality IPA for the adults. Moon Pies and Sun Chips for all! On the hill above our cabin, we spent over an hour watching eclipse drama. There were only a few minutes when the moon totally blocked the sun, but the time before and after was filled with surprises as well. Birthday Time My birthday was on the 9th, but we started celebrating early.  On the evening of the eclipse, I opened gifts and wore one of them! A Twice in a Lifetime eclipse t-shirt! We toasted with Spellbound Eclipse Chardonnay. Storms came that night, making us even more appreciative of good eclipse weather! On my real birthday, we had a cozy, stormy morning. Then a little lunch and antique shopping in small-town Blanco. Then hail and tornado warnings that evening. What a dramatic end to our fun gathering! Babysitting A few days after our celebrating, Don and I headed back to Austin, to do some babysitting.  Charlie smiled big before saying bye to Daddy and Mommy. Don and I had Charlietime, while they attended an out of town wedding. We happily survived 3 busy days and 4 bedtimes, with this sweet kiddo. Charlie only cried once. That was when she accidentally dropped her bedtime Paci into the toilet. A traumatic (and sort of humorous) moment. End of Month Project I'll end the April post, with focus on a comical and cringe-worthy home project. Don assured me his Block and Tackle System would safely get these ancient 10-ton toys down from the attic.  I had to put all trust in Don and his system, as I guided that toy fridge down those wobbly stairs! Then the stove/sink.  Crazy that we saved these. Don and I made these toy appliances 30+ years ago. They need a little spiffing up and then we'll see...
Flowers in Texas The Bluebonnets appeared this month. A good time to stay in Texas!
 Don and I didn't leave the state, but we saw signs of spring all over Texas! Weddings! March 2024, was a month for weddings! Early in the month we traveled to the Olde Dobbin Station, in Montgomery.
It was wonderful to celebrate with my dear friend and neighbor... and Mom-of-the-Bride, Becky! In Houston, I celebrated with my friend Shari, the evening before her son was married.
The former home of President and Barbara Bush looked lovely after a rainy day. Ranch Wedding in Carmine Rain also threatened the wedding the next day. 
The sun came out just before the ceremony! The nearby animals enjoyed! The Mom-of-the Groom looked as spectacular as the setting!
Don and I enjoyed the western decor!
We all clearly enjoyed the fun celebration! Chicken Ranch in Brenham Attending a wedding, allowed us to have a little extra fun, in the town of Brenham. Don and I stayed with friends at the Dixie Motel!
Luckily most of the property (which began as a chicken farm) has been nicely refurbished. Fun to catch up with Lorrie and John! Aunt Jenni and Aunt Kate In mid March, my sister and sister-in-law came to Texas, from Oregon.
We spent a couple days at the cabin, where Kate gave her grand-niece a special gift.  The flamingo skirt made by Aunt Kate was a hit!
There were some under the weather moments... but it all worked out.   The National Park puzzle was completed! Hill Country The 4 of us spent some time traveling around the Hill Country. Fredericksburg had Easter decorations!
Sisterdale had a cotton gin and a couple of sisters. Gruene had some rain. 
 But we had a great meal at the Grist Mill. Comfort, TX We took Kate and Jennifer to our favorite small town in Texas.
We posed with signs. And we spent a night at the old Meyer Hotel, from the 1880s.  Jennifer and I loved seeing our family name, displayed above our dinner table.  We made use of the porches...
 ... and swings. Hanging Out at Home Back in Sugar Land the weather was warm enough for pool time.
The weather was even more perfect for hanging around with paints and books! Celebrations! We got in some celebrating. Oscar Night!
Kate and Jennifer made an early St. Pat's feast before they departed! Don and I had a quiet Easter on the last day of the month.
March offered a lot of celebrating, with family and with friends! I'll drink (coffee) to that!
Year of the Dragon! Don and I celebrated the Lunar New Year at home in Sugar Land, with some good Chinese food and a dragon... and a bear.  The next day was the Super Bowl and I have no photos and 2 days later was... Mardi Gras! We do love a celebration! And so does the Austin fam! So nice to drive only 2.5 hours to celebrate with them. A year ago, they were 2,000 miles away in Oregon.
Don and Heidi cooked up an amazing gumbo.  No photos of our Sazeracs, but the masks, beads and King Cake were photo-worthy! Valentine's Day The main reason we made the trip, was to be there there for Valentine's Day.
Heidi got up extra early to make this stylin' 3-year-old a special breakfast. Homemade Poptart and fruit!
It's a miracle that Miss Independent Girl was willing to put on a festive dress and tiara and pose for a few pics before heading off to school! She seemed excited about her day! Art in Austin On the way to Charlie's daycare, we spotted some Valentine art from the road! Made me chuckle!  In the afternoon, Don and I were back at "school" for a Valentine Party, for 2 and 3 year olds. What a hoot! Birthday Time! Then it was time for the next celebration. Valentine's Day was also Charlie's 3rd birthday, so there were presents to open.
There was time to play with toys and to eat a a little Indian food. Korma was Char's choice for dinner! Then it was time to sing and blow out the #3 candle!  She tackled her Birthday Cheese Cake, with a few techniques. Flamingos! It was all about flamingos for the next few days. I loved helping with bath and Charlie loved her new flamingo towel.
There were flamingo jammies and a hopping flamingo...
There was some dancing with the "furry" pink flamingo puppet!  Party! On Saturday there was a party with friends. The flamingo sweatshirt came off.
Charlie romped and climbed and played, (in her favorite her Jimi Hendrix shirt) before pizza and cake. Home At home it was fun to watch just a handful of kiddos and adults enjoying the evening.  I have a feeling these 3 little girls, are going to be amazing independent young women someday.  Just like their moms! Leigh (L) and Heidi, have been friends since they were about the same age as the daughters. 3 wonderful moms here! Days of Play Don and I kept Char home from school for a couple days, so we could play.
So happy the predicted rain held off. A year ago we celebrated the 2-Year Birthday in Oregon. There was a snow storm.   We enjoyed being outside with this little jumper, before heading back home! Pool Time? Back home we had work to do. Or workmen to watch.  After a few days of demolition, I took a swim in the mess of old tile and coping! Time at Home After months of being on the go, it was nice to have more home time in February. I've gotten back to the piano.  Instead of getting frustrated with my sloppy skills, I've been creating my own music, instead. Never a mistake if it's all improvised! That clashing note was supposed to be there! Old Boxes I had time for a little memorabilia sorting. I studied my parent's old wedding photos and felt happy instead of sad. Yes, they were divorced. Yes, they have died. But I'm grateful that I witnessed their sweet reunion in 2005.
I found my grandmother's wedding announcement and my great grandmother's wedding invitation. What treasures! Time to Explore Sometimes I forget that I don't have to go on a trip to explore.  With more home-time this month, I discovered this school in Booth, Texas.  Just a 15-minute drive from our house! What an amazing property from 1912! Slow Progress Work on the pool progressed with decent February weather.
 I was totally entertained through the windows!  By the end of the month we had fresh plaster, tile and coping. In March, we'll replace dead plants and get the patio deck refreshed!  As we end February, it's too cold to swim, but we at least have water to look at! Cheers to the hot months ahead!
Happy at Home! After such a busy and emotional December, we eased into the first day of January. A lazy day starting with Rose Bowl parade. Then we cheered on Michigan. Funny. I don't even like football.  I didn't have the proper shirt, so I wore Don's old U of M rugby shirt!  A week later, we dressed up a bit more and went to dinner. It was the night before Michigan played Washington in HOUSTON! You never know if any celebs will be in town for the National Championship.
There was a festive buzz of energy and we kept a look out. No celebs sighted, but we chatted with many people wearing maze and blue. And we ate well. Getting Out The beginning of January, offered good weather. I stopped rolling my eyes and played Pickle Ball for the first time. I had to admit, it wasn't dumb, it was fun and I was pooped after 90 minutes.
I did a thing I haven't done in a million years. I went clothes shopping with a friend. Shari found a gorgeous Mother of the Groom dress at the Galleria! I love shopping when I'm not the one trying on clothes! Weather January weather was lovely, until it wasn't.  This photo was taken in mid January, the evening before our big freeze. We lost some plants but kept the pipes from freezing. Cabin Time We managed to avoid frozen pipes at the cabin, too. Which is very good, since we had visitors!
Charlie came to the cabin for the very first time. It was fun to see her reactions as she discovered things.
Rocks!
Puzzles and games! We had a quick lunch outing...
Charlie kept busy, but she did pause for some Mommy time.
And we all relaxed and stared at the fire. So much better than a TV. Charlie helped with real cooking... and pretend cooking.
The iron stove was one that her great-great-grandmother played with as a child. It had been a salesman's sample! What a cozy visit. Heading West On January 22, Don and I left the cabin and headed west. 
We stayed at a favorite hotel of ours in Van Horn, Texas. Saguaro Picnic We made sure to allow enough to time in Arizona, for a visit to Saguaro National Park.  What a perfect place for a winter picnic... and posing with cactus characters. Quartzsite, AZ So glad we had time to stop and explore this unusual town!
We visited the grave/monument for Hi Jolly. Hi was not a camel, but he was a camel driver from Syria. Hi died in Quartzsite, in 1902. 2 Nights in Tucson We spent 2 nights in the same city, which we rarely do while traveling. Lodge of the Desert was a little oasis. It started welcoming guests in the 1930's.
Of course we changed it up and stayed the second night at a totally different kind if place. Casino del Sol. "You booked us in a casino, Don?"
But we had fun, jumping from one kind of atmosphere to the next. Slot machines to tiki bars! Food & Drink in Arizona I packed a couple of "just in case shirts". (click to enlarge) You never know when you'll need a western shirt, or a tiki shirt. Villa Royale in Palm Springs The real destination of our road trip was to see our son and daughter in law in CA, So why not stay at the hotel they told us about last year?
It was just as heavenly as they described. Palm Royale was indeed a retro oasis. We lucked out and hit it on their monthly Paella Night! What a feast! Upper Lake, CA We drove through Upper Lake a few years ago, and were drawn to the old hotel.
This time we got to spend a night at the historic Tallman Hotel. What an evening with dinner and live music at the hotel's restaurant. I even danced with some locals! (click to enlarge) In the morning, we had breakfast along with the musicians, from the night before. Then we hit the road. The Coast Big rains were starting to roll in, when we checked into Heritage House, south of Mendocino.
We explored the historic property and took in some incredible views, before the rains hit that night. Napa We had a rainy drive to Napa the next day. Most go to Napa for the wineries. We were content to just stay put near our hotel, which had once been a milling complex. We wandered with umbrellas.
We dined at a sweet French restaurant, spotted a curious octopus near the river and saw the sun peek out the next morning. Sacramento with The Kids! Our meandering road trip was fun, but the real reason for the trip was to see Scott and Chali. It's hard having them so far away!
Hanging out in their home, is always my favorite. Lola the pooch loves the attention and we get to catch up, without distraction. But we did get out for walks in the park and we even had a fun trip wandering through the neighborhood hardware store!
And there was a brunch, at Bacon & Butter. What a name! Cha Time And I had some time with Chali!  She invited me to my very first Sound Bath experience. Soothing, with curious instruments and magical meditation! I finally got to see a movie at Sacramento's old Tower Theatre!
I love old theatres and movies and popcorn! Don and Scott were back home, enjoying some football. Family! It was a good start to the 2024. A little quiet home-time and then some travel.
But, the absolute best part of January was the time spent with The Kids, in Texas and in California. How lucky I feel to have family that we enjoy, so very much. I of course wish we all lived closer. It's especially tough saying good-bye when you'll soon be nearly 2,000 miles apart. But we have a lot of sweet (and fruity) memories to enjoy... until we get together next!
Dad and Charlie Time This photo is not from December, but it captures my bittersweet feelings about this past month. I'm so grateful I was able to spend time with the oldest and youngest members of my family...  December began with focus on Dad. My sister and I spent the first week of the month, at Dad's bedside. It was heartbreaking and heartwarming, sad and touching... so many emotions. When things felt extra tough, I reminded myself that I would be seeing my granddaughter over the holidays. Charlie is the happiest distraction ever. I'm so grateful that Dad was able to have fun with her, 3 months ago. Dad Time This is the Happy Blog, so I won't talk about the darkest moments of our time with Dad. The good parts are shown below.
Jennifer and I were nervous as we headed from the airport to the hospital, but we found Dad alert and with a sense of humor. We laughed and said no to a 6-pack of beer. Dad chuckled over some phone videos and smiled to see photos of his kids from the 1960's.
After one night in a hotel, we returned to the hospital early and "moved in". Staff brought another couch and extra food. (Jennifer's sling came a couple days later) Dad mostly slept that first full day, but we got our brothers on the phone when he rallied. When we sisters were worn and ready for bed, Dad suddenly woke and surprised us with a stronger voice. He had much to say, as he shared stories for nearly an hour. Jennifer pulled out her iPad wth an album of Dad's childhood photos. The images triggered more memories. He talked about his brothers and his pretty mother and funny memories of Halloween stunts from his youth. He spoke warmly about his childhood dogs, Skippy and Shep. Final Days Dad's doctor didn't know how many days he had left. 2-20 is a big span. Dad basically "slept" for the next few days. Jennifer and I slipped away to his assisted living apartment. Staff greeted us warmly. We found "Welcome Back" notes on Dad's door. It was tough breaking the news (especially to his biggest fan, Annie) that he wouldn't be returning.
It wasn't easy (physically or emotionally) rushing to clean out Dad's apartment, while he "rested" a few miles away. But we had good moments, when we found old photos and curious books. Annie was excited when we shared his "Obama Box". She reminded us how thrilled she was when she spotted him wearing an "End Racism" hat. The hurried job got even tougher, when Jennifer slipped off a stool. After getting a temporary cast at Dad's hospital, we were back at the apartment the next day, quickly finishing up. Good Bye Dad On December 8th, Jennifer and I got a hotel room for the night. A nurse called before 4 am the next morning, to say our father had died. I guess Dad just needed some peace and quiet, from his slumber party daughters...
We headed to the hospital to say good-bye. There's nothing Happy about that. But the smiling moon and decorations tried to cheer us. And the chilly air seemed to slap me with a shot of courage. I was relieved to step into empty elevators and quiet halls. I was so very glad to have my sister with me, to face the moment we knew was coming. Kisses, hugs, tears... Grateful for This One Jennifer and I tied up loose ends before we headed to the airport. We drove by our grandmother's house and stopped for a quick selfie, near the stone post we used to climb. Daw's house was our anchor, when our family moved frequently. We stayed in her cozy home, whenever we visited our Springfield relatives. So many memories.  In recent years, Jennifer and I have met up in Springfield numerous times to visit and care for Dad. On December 9, we stood on our favorite corner in Springfield and wondered when we'd ever be together in this town again. I don't like thinking about that. But, I'm glad we snapped the photo. It's a reminder of just how lucky I am to have this sister of mine, who laughed and cried with me for a week... and broke her arm and kept going. Love you Sis! Happy Dad Days I've shared some heavy stuff for a Happy Blog. So here's a slideshow, with happy pictures of Dad. There are a couple photos from when Dad was a boy and others from when he was a young dad. There are photos with grandkids and his 2 great- grandkids. The most recent photos are from his 95th birthday in September. When I feel the saddest, I remember how we all celebrated, so recently! I'm so happy to have those memories. December Part 2 There was a foggy week between my farewell to Dad and my much needed hello to Charlie. Knowing the the house would be full of energy and happy noise, got me through!  I brought a grumpy/sad mood and nagging cold home from Springfield, but there was no time to pamper myself. I still had unpacking to do from Europe and I hadn't started shopping or decorating. My lack of patience was evident, when I found myself ranting over ripped wrapping paper or glaring at long Post Office lines. The way I yanked at the vacuum cord as I raced to clean, showed I was not in the holiday spirit. But suddenly it was the 19th and Charlie and her parents changed everything! Zoo Light Adventure! We got into the holiday spirit quickly, with an early Christmas gift from Charlie's Uncle Scott and Aunt Cha! Tickets to Houston's Zoo Lights! It was just what we needed! It was a colorful night, with illuminated creatures and a few real animal sightings! The carousel might have been Charlie's favorite! Dining Out We had 9 days together, so we were able to fit in a few restaurant outings.
Dumplings and lollipops were a hit, at Mori Sushi! Schnitzel and live music at Rudi Lechner's! (click to enlarge) Don was in heaven with his boot-of-beer!
Charlie loved the music! Alpenhorn and accordion! She tipped well. Home-cooking There were no Christmas cookies in the house until Heidi arrived.  The house was filled with wonderful smells every day! We ate well!! Ready For Christmas On Christmas Eve the stockings were hung. We were missing Scott and Chali's stockings this year. But happy to know they were with family, in Thailand.
The Christmas Crab was also hanging and ready to be worn! You never know who might get crabby and need to wear the plastic crab necklace! Charlie was up and ready at 7. We all wore jammies, all day long. Some of us added hats, when the sun poured through the windows and made us squint through gift opening. 9 Days I'm so grateful that we had so many days together. I needed some festive distraction. There was time for the park and the piano. Lots of time for play. I needed that. Skippy I loved the happy distraction, but I also loved the precious reminders of Dad, throughout the holidays. Charlie for some reason wanted me to read the "Skippy" book to her, numerous times a day. After a couple of days, Charlie was "reading" it to me.
This is the book that my dad made for his grandkids in 1989. (My brother did the illustrations) It's the story of a boy, whose dog is missing. Every time I read the story, I remembered Dad when he last spoke in the hospital and talked about his dog Skippy. I never grew tired of reading this story over the holidays. Good-Bye 2023 The month began with Dad... and my sister. A good portion of December was spent with Charlie and her wonderful parents.  The last day of the month and year, was spent with just Don. It was peaceful and lovely. We sat near the fire pit with champagne. I feel very lucky to have had his never-ending support, this month... and always.
Museum & Lunch When Don's sister visited in early November, we had lunch and visited the Houston Museum of Fine Arts.  We dined near the museum, at a cafe table that reminded me of Paris... which was exciting since Don and I (just days before) booked a spontaneous trip to Paris Art Near Home With Jane, we practiced being traveling tourists at the museum.    We walked some miles seeing numerous exhibits at the museum! Museums & Galleries The very next day we were off to Austin where we joined family and played tourist a little bit more.   Weather was lousy, but the Thinkery Museum for kiddos was a blast! More Art Jane and I enjoyed touring some studios and galleries.  "Austin's Studio Tour" festival, gave us a chance to meet artists in their own studios. Best Entertainment Besides galleries and museums, there was time for Charlie's last soccer match.  And there was time to hang out at the house. Coloring, puzzling and hamming it up a bit! ❤️ Paris By November 22nd, Don and I were suddenly in Paris! Our last visit was 24 years ago.  It was a last minute decision, since we had no holiday plans and flight costs were low! Fouquet's We had Thanksgiving dinner at Fouquet's, just like we did in 1999.  Years ago, Don and the kids studied the brass plates on the walkway, looking for the names of famous visitors. This time, I posed on the red carpet. Things looked a lot more decorated! Eating Through Paris We ate a lot. Food and drink always tastes better in lovely settings, like Fouquet's and Musee d'Orsay and Hotel Bristol. We ate inside quaint cafes and at a tiny outside table in Montmarte, watching the artists, paint and sell. Walking Through Paris Although we Uber-ed a couple times, we mostly walked. And walked and walked. That's how you burn off all the French food! Museum Time We only had 4 days in Paris, so we chose Musee d'Orsay over the Louvre. We loved seeing the classics, like Degas' Little Dancer. But we also love the grand building itself and the stunning views from windows! Strasbourg, France I'd barely heard of Strasbourg, until the day after we decided to go to Paris.  I woke up and peeked at Instagram and saw a mind-blowing reel, showing magical images of the old city's annual Christmas Markets. We booked 2 nights in the storybook town, on the border of Germany. Night Market There are numerous Christmas Markets in Old Strasbourg, all just steps from our hotel. At night we bundled and joined the crowds. Ate pretzels and German sausage and hot wine, as we wandered. Exploring In the early morning, it was easier to see the old village without crowds. I meandered and found us some wonderful restaurants... we returned and ate some memorable meals! Zurich A quick trip to Paris had been the plan. But when we realized we could fly out of Zurich, we added 2 nights. We had one full day with sunshine, in Zurich. Food & Drink Adventures While wandering, we did come across some fun dining options. Our lunch at the ritzy Baur au Lac Hotel, was heavenly. Walking back from lunch, we discovered the Conelli Circus, floating over the water. The circus was almost over, but we were welcomed into the bar and enjoyed coffee. A perfect dinner of Swiss Fondu in our hotel, on our last night! Old Zurich The best part of Zurich was the sweet old town area. We stayed in a centuries old, hotel. Hotel Adler was just steps away from quaint shops and churches and lovely old fountains. On the morning before departing, the snow began to fall and we made it to the airport before big traffic issues. Christmas in November! We flew home on the last day of November, feeling like the Christmas holidays were in full swing!
 All 3 cities surprised us with festive decor! We finished up the month happy... and cold! Ready for some Texas warmth!
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