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#126 - Don't Like Loss

12/2/2016

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Lately, I've complained a lot about hair loss.  And yesterday morning I was distraught when I thought I lost Ms. Donkey.  But the hair is growing slowly and my good luck donkey mascot was found... and I'm feeling foolish for fretting over minor worries.
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Yesterday evening, I was reminded about real loss, when I heard someone I knew died unexpectedly.  How could this incredibly well-liked, energetic man suddenly be gone? Hadn't I just clicked "like" to Tommy's new profile picture, after spotting his huge smile on Facebook? I pictured his son, who was in marching band with my son and I couldn't imagine the pain he must be feeling. 

It's Christmastime, the hardest time to face a loss.  Four years ago today, my mom died unexpectedly.  Two years ago, my brother-in-law also died unexpectedly. Five years ago, I lost my much younger half-brother in December. It's not a time of year we expect to grieve.

So instead of getting mad myself for pouting over the stupid things, I'm putting a tiny angel next to my donkey and reminding myself to enjoy each day and to take no one for granted.  
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Lori Harpst
12/4/2016 03:46:47 pm

I certainly wouldn't beat myself up over hair loss and the anniversaries of your family members' passing. Not trivial. I am with you on losing Tommy. So much tragedy in our world, which is why we are grateful for the little things. I admire your introspection, and your outlook. You make me smile🙂

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kristi
12/5/2016 07:15:29 am

I lost my father in December. I'm very sorry to hear about your friend. Sending big virtual hugs your way.

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Beth
12/9/2016 03:18:55 pm

Kristi, I'm so sorry. That must have been very tough losing your dad in December. Sending big virtual hugs back at you!

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Beth
12/9/2016 03:24:26 pm

Lori, Tommy brought a lot of us back together and he would have liked that. It was so nice to share some hugs at his visitation. A lot of people missing him for sure!

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