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#102 - Don't Like Prickly Hair

10/15/2016

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Blank Slate

Yesterday I was pondering... "I know my hair will start growing back soon, but I want to begin with a blank slate."  I have prickly hairs that came back during chemo and I know to expect surprises in color and texture with new hair growth. But, I want to start fresh. So this is what I did!

Richmond Barber Shop
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At 8:00 this morning, I met A.D. at his barber shop in Richmond, Texas.  I told him on the phone yesterday about my situation.  
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He seemed delighted to help me out, but he said he'd only be there in the early morning before his grandson came in at 8:30. He actually arrives most mornings at 6 or before!

Richmond, TX
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I heard about A.D.'s shop 10 days ago, when  I went into the antique store across the street.  
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It was the afternoon of my last chemo and I was in good spirits.  I spent time with the chatty owner talking about Richmond history and she mentioned the barber shop across the street.   ​

The Shop
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I looked across and saw the sign saying, "Best Little Clip Joint West of the Brazos" and I started thinking.  I wondered about getting my head actually shaved with a straight razor. How many chances in life does a woman get to do that?
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I also knew there was a very small window of time for bothering.  Why shave your head, when hair is growing in?

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Cure for the Blahs

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I drove out on Highway 90 this morning.  Fog was hanging over the railroad tracks and the ranch land, beside the road.  I was feeling pretty giddy, because I love an odd adventure.  I had no idea how welcomed or awkward I might  feel, but I needed to shake it up.
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The day before I was in a grumpy mood realizing I needed over 6 weeks of radiation, not 4.  I needed something fun to lift my spirits.  I could have done a spa treatment... or gotten a tattoo or anything.  But the barber shop was my choice, to cure the blahs.

My Buddies of the Morning
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A.D. and his buddy, Silven were waiting for me. They both greeted me with smiles and handshakes.
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They look pretty serious in this photo, but that's because A.D. told me to feel free to take photos.  They didn't know they were in this one. There must have been 500 framed photos. And I didn't even get a photo of the saddle or Elvis by the door.

Before
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Silven was happy to sit with his coffee and take some shots.  
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I had my paisley scarf for the photo, then whipped it off and took a seat.

Getting Started
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A.D. couldn't have put me more at ease. He seemed pretty amused about me being the first woman to ever ask for a head shave. In fact I think I was his first woman customer since he started in 1960.  
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But he was also warm and open about my situation. He told me he'd be taking his time. "I'll go slow." he said. I was pretty delighted with the warm towel on my head!

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The Brush!
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My expression doesn't match how I felt. I actually loved that he was using a brush to dab on the lather... cream... what do they call it?
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 I told him I felt like I was in Mayberry.  He didn't act at all like goofy Floyd on The Andy Griffith Show.

Straight Razor
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A.D. didn't act like Sweeny Todd either... thank goodness.
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He was cautious and gentle and only made me laugh when there was no razor in his hand.  
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I laughed about all my head flaws that I never see.  "I heard there's a mole up there!" I told him. But he just complimented my round head.

Done!
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We did laugh much of the time. It was hard keeping still because our  3-way conversation was lively.  And then another fella came in, waiting for an appointment with A.D.'s grandson.  
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A.D. introduced us and teased, "Yeah, I messed up her haircut last week and she told me to just take it all off."  I told him to stop making me laugh.  We 4 chatted till I was done and A.D. cooled my head with cooling towel. He cautiously diluted it, so I wouldn't jump out of my seat. Then he fanned my cooling head. "How's that feel?"
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Me and My Barber
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A.D. told me that my "bubbly personality" was going to get me through this thing, no problem.
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He also laughed to Silven that it was a lot more fun having me in there than a bunch of men... and did I want a job?  He said it in the kindest of ways.   

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Grandson, Colt came in to take over with the other barber chair. A.D. introduced us and I marveled that a man who had been "barbering" since the 1950's could have a grandson in the biz, now. Pretty cool.
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A.D. pointed out some of the photos he'd been putting up since he opened up 56 years ago. "I just love photos." he said.  He said he had polio as a child and he was the only one in the hospital who had a camera. I would so love to see some of his photos from then!

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I asked my new friends if I should put on my scarf before heading out. They told me to go for it with my new head.  
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So I tied my scarf around my neck.  I asked A.D. how much I owed him and he wouldn't even discuss being paid.  Silven said he was stubborn and don't even try.  They both gave me hugs before I left and I promised to come back and show them my hair when it grows in. 

Driving Bald
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I rolled down the windows of my Honda Element, wishing I had a convertible.  Then I took a scenic route through Richmond, stopping to pick up some coffee with my scarf-less head.  
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I drove down the highway feeling the breeze on my smooth skin and I smiled.  I sort of hoped I wouldn't see any neighbors as I pulled into my drive, but at least my confidence was up... if I did.
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8 Comments
Lorrie
10/15/2016 11:12:25 am

Beth, You're so brave! And there's something about seeing you having this adventure that makes me think that you are feeling better about this whole situation. You've decided you can do this thing and still be retro girl! Unroll that window and feel the breeze! Sweet, brave, strong, funny, smart friend.

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Beth
10/15/2016 02:37:38 pm

Thanks Lorrie! It's a little easier being brave at this point along the journey. I do feel better and that light at the end of the tunnel is so much brighter. I'll have to tell you who I spotted when I was flying through New Territory with my windows down... :)

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Linda Hoben
10/15/2016 03:23:35 pm

You are awesome Beth Zienty !!!

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Beth
10/16/2016 08:08:06 am

Linda, you are pretty awesome yourself. Thanks for being my Lucy neighbor!

From Your Friend,
Ethyl!!!

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Angie Eldam
10/15/2016 08:01:43 pm

Beth,
You are such an inspiration to me and others. I've been in a funk lately feeling sorry for myself but when I read about your adventures it gives me courage to get out there and live even if I have to stop every 45 seconds to catch my breath. Life needs to be lived not watched.

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Beth
10/17/2016 02:48:54 pm

Angie, I'm so sorry I was slow seeing your comment! You of all people are the biggest inspiration! My tiny bump in the road was made so much easier by your encouragement... someone who has had a lung transplant. I so hope you're feeling better by the time you read this. It's my turn to offer you encouragement, but also thanks! You have taught us all to appreciate each breath!

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Jenni
10/15/2016 10:18:56 pm

This is just wonderful. Quintessentially YOU. I love that you did this, and only wish I'd been right there with you. Good for you, you brave gutsy thing, you.

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Beth
10/16/2016 08:09:52 am

Oh, Jenni! If only you had been with me and had the Saab convertible! You would have gotten your hair cut as well and we would have driven away with the top down!

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